Do You Lie?

Do you lie? Do you know that the focus of lying is never about the lie, but about the person telling it? Things You Need To Know About Lying:

1. Lying has nothing to do with the specific lie being told; it has to do with a person’s character.

-Lying is NEVER okay.

-Ask yourself – If you told this person the truth might he make a decision other the one he is making? When your objective is to deceive or withhold information from the other person in some way, you are lying.

-Check out Sisela Bok, 1978, Lying, Moral Choice in Public and Private Life

2. If you excuse lying sometimes, you will continue to lie.

-Do not excuse lying. You tell yourself you do not want to hurt her feelings, but in the end, you end up hurting her more.

-Sometimes it is difficult to tell another how you are really feeling, but at this point it is merely a communication problem.

- Learn how to be authentic and at the same time take into account another’s feelings.

3. When you allow lying in your life, you lose your dignity and self-esteem.

-We ALL know lying is bad, a sign of weak character.

-When you lie, only you know that; and you suffer from a lack of self-esteem and self-respect.

-You cannot have real relationships without dignity and self-esteem.

4. Lying creates secrets and secrets isolate people from one another.

-Lying is a betrayal between two people and deprives the person being lied to of making decisions based on the truth.

-We all deserve the right to decide for ourselves what is best for us.

-Without honest and accurate information, we cannot do that.

5. Lying destroys love.

-This says it all.

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