Equality and Courting - You Can Have Both!

Are you confused about the differences between men and women, want to earn a big paycheck, but still want your car door opened? Equality and courting are not mutually exclusive and exist side by side in the best relationships.

1. Equality refers to opportunity; it is very different than courting.

-Courting happens in the heart, equality happens in the brain.

-Courting bypasses the brain. When a man opens a car door for a woman there is male/female exchange of energy.

-He feels more male and she feels more female. This is what creates the chemistry.

2. As women, when we try to be the same as a man, we deny ourselves the enjoyment of being a woman.

-Although we may come into this world as either male or female, unless we enjoy who we are, we miss a lot of delight and joy.

-I do not think our sex is an accident.

-I know why I am female this time (I have lessons to learn). PS. I could do male standing on my head.

3. Men are confused about what makes women feel good but we have confused them. And now we don’t like the result.

-Women need to re-evaluate what feels good to them.

-In order for there to be chemistry, the male/female polarity needs to be in place.

-In relationship, when a woman behaves like a man she automatically pulls a more feminine male counterpart and then wonders why a strong, masculine man is not attracted to her.

4. Men and Women are different and different things make them feel good.

-Do not try to make a man like your girlfriends, and do not treat a woman like one of the guys. Nothing more needs to be said.

-A feeling of equality comes naturally when we have nothing to prove and can simply enjoy the differences.

-This is clearly a case where the whole is more than the sum of its parts.

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